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They say-  people come into your life with a purpose, that may be something that will strengthen you, or things that will leave your soul wounded.
there will be people whom you will love unconditionally, and there will be some, who will love you whole-heartedly.

i believe, this whole world is like a day-dream for God. he just sits in his bed knitting a dream- he imagines a person and then his/her life. he adds up some worry one day, and subtract some the other day.
sometimes he realizes that the situation is too much for that one person, he introduces another person in his life :) to share the pain, lending a helping hand- a heart to share the grief.
we get so much involved with those people, to realize that their time is our lives.
there are times when we step into other people lives, to help them get over their fears, to bear their pains.
that is just some cycle that goes on.
and once the part is over, and its time to bid-farewell, we are in tears. we hate that part.
we are so comfortable in the present that even a slight change terrifies us. we wonder if the change would be good. will we be able to survive without the people we are so accustomed to.

we forget that the only thing constant in one's life is the one :) . other people will come and go, some will stay for longer than usual :) others will be just there from time to time.


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Aaah.... Guess what today i thought about several things that i want to share with you people... But i realized this needs a break...

There must be something worth writing... ;p

Was reading a novel-
In between some arguement
And the hero asks heroine- what do you want me to do?

Her reply- "i don't know".

And i wasn't able to stop myself.... I was laughing out aloud....
Truely said-how could a guy understand what his girl wants..when she herself has got no idea....
Funny but true..
Well if some guy writes this on his facebook wall...i will be so-so angry... I may even shout....what the hell these guys think...

But i know its true...i mean...we girls always know what the other person expects... What we should do...

But we are seldomly sure about what we want...
;) may be because...since early days of our lives....we keep everyone else before have lost contact with ourselves...


just a thought...

I guess the best thing i learned till that - if you feel have a war going on inside your head, you are not sure about the next step you will take...or where your life is going...where you will be , the very next day...or a week later or what you will do...So what if sometimes you feel that things are wrong...nothing is working out the way you suggested... still you will be fine...You will live by all this... many-many similar days are waiting for you...Big dreams and even bigger problems are being positioned by the almighty , just to add a little adventure...But you will live ...It will all be fine in the end...
Just be yourself...and see how beautiful a person you are... Just smile...may be just to practice it...
Because even your smile is a little tired and sad...tomorrow it will be happy...real and satisfying... Life is not about a moment...or a day...or a week...not even a year... Its about the whole...its about you... :)

Count your blessings

"If material things are what you are talking about when you say i am blessed, You have no idea what a blessing is. "
Yes, its weird coming from a shopaholic like me :) but isn't it correct. We all or I must say- most of us have what we need to live our lives. Its just that we want more, something more and that list never ends.
We get something we wanted , and we develop a liking for something else. Its good to have your thoughts in sync, to move ahead, to wish and make your own wishes come true. But there is no way, those wishes can define your happiness.

One thing I learned from observing people is that we wish for these material things and act crazy for them when we believe there is something missing in the life. Something more meaningful, something you believe you should have got as a right or something you really deserve. It could be being alone, losing someone, not having that dream job, just anything.  And we use these material things to just fill in those gaps. To…