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and she said...look, I'm no victim

i read this article...and once again i don't know what to do. to be sad, to cry about these gals who have and are sufferring so much , just because of some douchebag.
or to be happy that no one around me has seen any of this...or never disclosed
hence giving a fake relief.
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this victim would like to speak out. Not on behalf of other "victims", because each perpetration of sexual violence, fondling, verbal abuse, intent even, is different for each person. I want to speak out because I believe that the shame the victims of sexual abuse feel is one of the reasons sexual abuse continues to occur in our society. Victims hide the abuse so they are not branded either a "victim" or a "slut", or become known primarily for that act of violence, rather than for the many and multifarious good things they may have done since – raised a family, written a book, gained a PhD, in my case. I was abused when I was 11, by a friend of my parents. Joe doesn't fit a…

The Importance of Happiness

Happiness is one of the most essential aspects of a person’s life. The feeling of positivity which takes its roots from healthy self-esteem serves to influence and inspire you and the people around you to be the best that they can be. Despite life’s many challenges and curveballs, it is important to acknowledge all experiences as part of a learning process which will ultimately serve to enlighten you as to your purpose in life. However, in this day and age of materialism, peer pressure, mixed messages and a general blurring of the demarcation between “right” and “wrong”, it is very easy to get caught up in the inevitable web of confusion, frustration and ultimately, depression. Here are some ways by which you can ensure that your happiness quotient remains sky high and brimming with positivity, no matter how challenging the circumstances. Everything happens for a reason, even the things which one would question the existence of because they make us sad. With the joy of giving birth to…

my best friend...

i was crying...i was so damn hurt...almost unbearable...i didn't wanted to live...felt like it was oVER... and then  a person said- "i am with you" staying up all night...just to make sure that i am alright.  giving me everything... not almost but everything...no matter how weird or stupid my wish was. bearing with me in the worst of my times...telling me that i am not alone. saving money for my crazy-stupid dreams...spending even the last penny for my hobbies. standing up for me...no matter who is against...trusting me no matter how badly i fell. (have the proofs as well...huh :) ) yes...i have a best friend...the best of all...and that too...with a commitment for LIFETIME.
may be that's why they say...if you have an elder sister...life would be a cake walk for you.
but yes T&C applies...lolz
seriously...  she is my biggest and worst critic...you know why...because she knew me...even the deepest of my secrets...my thoughts...my feelings.
no matter what the situ…

isn't it beautiful ???

He wondered what just happened... Days turning nights..nights turning days.. something was sure kept for mending
Passing moments made him loose what he held tightly...
Solace from the dear ones wasn't helping...
Kept in the dark...he felt everything blooming unlikely... Door was kept ajar...the wind blew slow...
he saw someone...
wasn't sure whether it was his hurting eyes...or the person's glow... He gathered strength...made himself stand...
Shall he or shall not he grab the signalling strand... Bestowed by the mercy he got...
he walked...ohh he walked far....
leaving behind ... he ran with a recovering scar... Vengeance was on the mind... when he thought of how he bled...
He had an aim.. to drop each one of them just... Dead... Somehow hate changed to mercy...mercy changed to love...
wasn't too easy to turn an ugly duck into a dove.. He felt good...He felt new crispness in the air...
He wondered what just happened ....
everything just seemed fair....
-RAM CHANDER SHARMA

Change

In an interesting turn of events, i sit silently.... observing.... people going in or out of my life.... People who were there are long gone.... People who i never thought of, came much close... i sit there smiling... preserving... and.... cherishing each moment..... 






A desperate desire to change the present....
An unchangeable past... an unseen future...
Do we really have something to repent?
Something to cherish...Something to remember...
Change once forsaken...eagerly waited now every december...
Bonds changed so did one's life... Once felt... now moulded to something new...
Hoping things to reveal themselves unglued...
You might not appreciate the change now...
but you will understand its worth someday somehow...
you may ponder...
Why it was necessary why it had to come...
life will give all the answers..
proving why all of this came undone...
Hold on tightly it is surely going to be a bumpy ride...
Watch the pieces fall in place when your destiny strides...

-RAM CHANDER SHARMA