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valentine day or valentine year...


first of all happy valentine day to everyone...:) and second of all...there's a question...or let’s say a couple of questions popping up in my mind about this significant day
in my entire life,  say 18 years(i am not hiding my age...i am proud 22:-P) ,I have been thinking as to why this day has a larger than life gossip hovering around…

what exactly is so special about this day???

Yes, I know the story behind the day(rather there was a story behind the day)...something was there for sure....because i still remember the day....when in school we get all this lecture about the real meaning of this day... something that was more than...flowers, balloons and stuff.

but as always at that time...my mind was flying somewhere high in the sky and my ears were eavesdropping on the next group of people gossiping about the latest affairs :P

well that was about the time when having an affair was a taboo. But now it’s a different story... having someone by your side is like a social symbol :D

one more question that just pinged in my mind is...why this series of * days... (* is a really-really important thing in my life these days...trust me in linux...it can do wonders)

so coming back to the thing... why...???

it seems like...

you ask a girl to share a CHOCOLATE with you one day.
next day you give her a rose...saying a rose for a rose...lolz
(i am not sure about sequence...but i guess that doesn't matter much)

and then make some promises...and then propose...
if yes...then go out...have fun...celebrate hug day...kiss day and so on.
and finally today...

seems more like a bollywood movie... like in kal ho na ho (khnh)-   "5 din, ladki in"

haha... and even if it fails... you have slap day...and break-up day coming up.

no-no i am not against love or love-birds...the only thing i wanna say is...

when you like someone...you don't need a specific day to share a chocolate(please someone tell this to my friends too :P)
when you think someone is beautiful...inside-out...don't wait for rose-day to tell them...

if you think you really wanna spend your life with someone...go and propose on that very moment.
if you think the person really mean something to you...go and make promises...the one you can manage t fulfil.

and when you know you love someone....with whole your heart...go for it...propose...ask her/him out...even stalk the person... do whatever you feel like to have that special person in your life(conditions apply).
just don't think twice...

and when you really love someone...you don't need to have this one day or just a week to show that...

why you celebrate valentine day...when you can celebrate valentine month or even valentine year...


guess what...today on this auspicious day...many-many years back...my parents got married. they didn't know if 14 Feb was something special or not. they didn't have any idea that most of the people celebrate and will celebrate this day...

all they know was...they were getting married:) and after all these years...even now when i see them... i know...
maybe they have never even once celebrated rose day...prpose day...or even v-day...

they have a valentine year every year :)

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just a thought...

I guess the best thing i learned till today...is that - if you feel bad...you have a war going on inside your head, you are not sure about the next step you will take...or where your life is going...where you will be , the very next day...or a week later or what you will do...So what if sometimes you feel that things are wrong...nothing is working out the way you suggested... still you will be fine...You will live by all this... many-many similar days are waiting for you...Big dreams and even bigger problems are being positioned by the almighty , just to add a little adventure...But you will live ...It will all be fine in the end...
Just be yourself...and see how beautiful a person you are... Just smile...may be just to practice it...
Because even if...today your smile is a little tired and sad...tomorrow it will be happy...real and satisfying... Life is not about a moment...or a day...or a week...not even a year... Its about the whole...its about you... :)