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Hurt...or hurt little less.

Choice is yours.

After losing almost all the friendly-but-virtual bonds in my life...i started afresh. Its more like choosing a date and forgetting everything that is dated before that one.
But no matter how much you try...there is always a string attached to your past. The experiences you got...the lessons...the moments... So much to recall and always being connected to.

Few days back i got a comment on my blog's wall-'to stop the song that is played in the background of it'

my first reaction was -'what the hell??? How could someone say like that...and that too in this tone'(the way comment was...have seen people messaging and chatting,seems so materialistic at times...while my way is... - even with the way my friend said hi...i can tell something is wrong :) )

well... My second reaction-' hmm...may be its time...even i was thinking about the same since long but couldn't bring myself  to do that...this song is so close to my heart...just like this blog :) ok ok...a lil less maybe.'

but then again my thought process came to action- 'people could be so cold at times...its like you go to someone's house...the one they have decorated all by themselves(and you know that well) and all you end up saying is- the color of bedsheet doesn't match with the curtains.
 I mean the person could just press the mute button for a while...or could enjoy anything they might like...the posts or the music...

And trust me this song is awesome :)
Huh. No offense to anyone but i know... Approximately no one-no one from my friend list reads my blog... But does that really matter??? Thing important is- how much i love it... If someone match my views :) or even if they don't...there is always-always a possibility to learn something. Today, what I want to communicate my friends and reader friends is...

"Try to appreciate things...and not just things people

"


There is something i can bet about...there are always atleast 2 things in each and every person. If you can't see that in someone...
may be you need to know them a lil more.


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Aaah.... Guess what today i thought about several things that i want to share with you people... But i realized this needs a break...

There must be something worth writing... ;p

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In between some arguement
And the hero asks heroine- what do you want me to do?

Her reply- "i don't know".


And i wasn't able to stop myself.... I was laughing out aloud....
Truely said-how could a guy understand what his girl wants..when she herself has got no idea....
Funny but true..
Well if some guy writes this on his facebook wall...i will be so-so angry... I may even shout....what the hell these guys think...

Hehe
But i know its true...i mean...we girls always know what the other person expects... What we should do...

But we are seldomly sure about what we want...
;) may be because...since early days of our lives....we keep everyone else before us....so have lost contact with ourselves...
;)

Love,jags

just a thought...

I guess the best thing i learned till today...is that - if you feel bad...you have a war going on inside your head, you are not sure about the next step you will take...or where your life is going...where you will be , the very next day...or a week later or what you will do...So what if sometimes you feel that things are wrong...nothing is working out the way you suggested... still you will be fine...You will live by all this... many-many similar days are waiting for you...Big dreams and even bigger problems are being positioned by the almighty , just to add a little adventure...But you will live ...It will all be fine in the end...
Just be yourself...and see how beautiful a person you are... Just smile...may be just to practice it...
Because even if...today your smile is a little tired and sad...tomorrow it will be happy...real and satisfying... Life is not about a moment...or a day...or a week...not even a year... Its about the whole...its about you... :)

Count your blessings

"If material things are what you are talking about when you say i am blessed, You have no idea what a blessing is. "
Yes, its weird coming from a shopaholic like me :) but isn't it correct. We all or I must say- most of us have what we need to live our lives. Its just that we want more, something more and that list never ends.
We get something we wanted , and we develop a liking for something else. Its good to have your thoughts in sync, to move ahead, to wish and make your own wishes come true. But there is no way, those wishes can define your happiness.

One thing I learned from observing people is that we wish for these material things and act crazy for them when we believe there is something missing in the life. Something more meaningful, something you believe you should have got as a right or something you really deserve. It could be being alone, losing someone, not having that dream job, just anything.  And we use these material things to just fill in those gaps. To…