Tuesday, 1 January 2013

What is love?


What is love?
I care for you...you care for me...is this love?

I can do anything for you, just be with me...is this love?

Mmm... I guess love has no designed parameters...it just happens...no reason no pre-requisities.
Love is the stupidest of all the emotions...may be because it is a combo-pack of all. It covers smiling...crying...anger...jealousy...care...concern...friendship...and love.
A few days back...while going through my diaries and stuff...i saw a page... A drawing of mine...in which...a guy was commiting suicide by hanging on a tree branch...and below that have written- how could a person be that stupid...how could he just finish everything just because of one person? What about everyone else? His family? Friends?

I just smiled...and closed that booklet... I realised how innocent i was... A child...stepping into youth...looking at the rainbows...believing her own life will be filled with them...considering love as the most amazing...loving...and happiest journey... Actually not just a journey...but a journey with a happy ending...or i must say...a story leading to a happy sequel.

At that age...life seemed like a sweet long drive... You will put your seat belt on...it wil just go on.
We will watch romantic movies...and so...considering one of our parents or friend.. to be the villian...we will just carry on...

And then...the real life starts... Yes you yourself could be the villian... Or what will you do if the person you are willing to fight for...is ready to give you up.  when sometimes differences will be so much...that you will consider the distance as the bestest option.
You will cry more than you laugh and still you have to carry on with the life..all the tasks... There will be times you don't want to talk to anyone...but you have to go to a party.
Times when all you want is to cry...but your friend's prob seems to be a more realistic one.
These will be times when your heart feels like overstretched. You want to give up on everything...even your breaths.

But wait dear...
Wait a little...and yes...there will be time when you will learn the basics again...in a mature sense, you will learn to control yourself... Just to fall again.
You will build the walls around your heart...you will feel fine and secure in your own little world.

And then there will be a person...who will come in your life... Will break those walls...will knock at your heart's door...will tell all the right passwords(words)...you will give them some space...and soon they will own that space...
But don't forget...its again a 50-50 shot. :)

i don't know that soulmate thing exist or not...i don't know people are good or not. I don't know the relationships still have their meaning or not...

There's no gaurranttee or warranttee for anything in this world...especially related to feelings...
So just remember...
No matter what's going on...there's someone or not...

Just have a RULE.
 
'everyday...just make two people happy... And make sure...you are one of them'

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