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What is love?


What is love?
I care for you...you care for me...is this love?

I can do anything for you, just be with me...is this love?

Mmm... I guess love has no designed parameters...it just happens...no reason no pre-requisities.
Love is the stupidest of all the emotions...may be because it is a combo-pack of all. It covers smiling...crying...anger...jealousy...care...concern...friendship...and love.
A few days back...while going through my diaries and stuff...i saw a page... A drawing of mine...in which...a guy was commiting suicide by hanging on a tree branch...and below that have written- how could a person be that stupid...how could he just finish everything just because of one person? What about everyone else? His family? Friends?

I just smiled...and closed that booklet... I realised how innocent i was... A child...stepping into youth...looking at the rainbows...believing her own life will be filled with them...considering love as the most amazing...loving...and happiest journey... Actually not just a journey...but a journey with a happy ending...or i must say...a story leading to a happy sequel.

At that age...life seemed like a sweet long drive... You will put your seat belt on...it wil just go on.
We will watch romantic movies...and so...considering one of our parents or friend.. to be the villian...we will just carry on...

And then...the real life starts... Yes you yourself could be the villian... Or what will you do if the person you are willing to fight for...is ready to give you up.  when sometimes differences will be so much...that you will consider the distance as the bestest option.
You will cry more than you laugh and still you have to carry on with the life..all the tasks... There will be times you don't want to talk to anyone...but you have to go to a party.
Times when all you want is to cry...but your friend's prob seems to be a more realistic one.
These will be times when your heart feels like overstretched. You want to give up on everything...even your breaths.

But wait dear...
Wait a little...and yes...there will be time when you will learn the basics again...in a mature sense, you will learn to control yourself... Just to fall again.
You will build the walls around your heart...you will feel fine and secure in your own little world.

And then there will be a person...who will come in your life... Will break those walls...will knock at your heart's door...will tell all the right passwords(words)...you will give them some space...and soon they will own that space...
But don't forget...its again a 50-50 shot. :)

i don't know that soulmate thing exist or not...i don't know people are good or not. I don't know the relationships still have their meaning or not...

There's no gaurranttee or warranttee for anything in this world...especially related to feelings...
So just remember...
No matter what's going on...there's someone or not...

Just have a RULE.
 
'everyday...just make two people happy... And make sure...you are one of them'

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There must be something worth writing... ;p

Was reading a novel-
In between some arguement
And the hero asks heroine- what do you want me to do?

Her reply- "i don't know".


And i wasn't able to stop myself.... I was laughing out aloud....
Truely said-how could a guy understand what his girl wants..when she herself has got no idea....
Funny but true..
Well if some guy writes this on his facebook wall...i will be so-so angry... I may even shout....what the hell these guys think...

Hehe
But i know its true...i mean...we girls always know what the other person expects... What we should do...

But we are seldomly sure about what we want...
;) may be because...since early days of our lives....we keep everyone else before us....so have lost contact with ourselves...
;)

Love,jags

just a thought...

I guess the best thing i learned till today...is that - if you feel bad...you have a war going on inside your head, you are not sure about the next step you will take...or where your life is going...where you will be , the very next day...or a week later or what you will do...So what if sometimes you feel that things are wrong...nothing is working out the way you suggested... still you will be fine...You will live by all this... many-many similar days are waiting for you...Big dreams and even bigger problems are being positioned by the almighty , just to add a little adventure...But you will live ...It will all be fine in the end...
Just be yourself...and see how beautiful a person you are... Just smile...may be just to practice it...
Because even if...today your smile is a little tired and sad...tomorrow it will be happy...real and satisfying... Life is not about a moment...or a day...or a week...not even a year... Its about the whole...its about you... :)

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"If material things are what you are talking about when you say i am blessed, You have no idea what a blessing is. "
Yes, its weird coming from a shopaholic like me :) but isn't it correct. We all or I must say- most of us have what we need to live our lives. Its just that we want more, something more and that list never ends.
We get something we wanted , and we develop a liking for something else. Its good to have your thoughts in sync, to move ahead, to wish and make your own wishes come true. But there is no way, those wishes can define your happiness.

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