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We are humans... I am scared about this change

            Oh god!!!

I can’t believe it...what the hell is happening… I know the world talks about the change, but can a change be so disastrous, I could never imagine.

Well truly speaking i hate newspapers...i mean the part except filmy gossips...jokes and stories...But yesterday...having a coffee i thought...lets see what is going on...And as always...ignoring the front page...i started readin the last page...
There was a news...i read it...and i was in shock...my eyes...open wide...and i said-"what the hell???"
Well it was about a girl...living in pakistan....she was shot dead by her brother...because he wore jeans and her brother has warned her not to.
I don't know that's real reason or not...because frankly....i can't trust that...someone killing you just because...you are wearing jeans??
Even if its not the true reason...how could a newspaper editor...let this news publish??


What the hell is wrong with us??? Is it seriously about clothes or the fact that...we can't control our outburst...which could take any form...depending on the resources we have access to.
Truely speaking this case is like the other ones...where someone is killed because he didn't give money.... Or any other....
Firstly thing i want to understand is the same.....couldn't that outburst be avoided?
Secondly, who the hell was the guy to tell his sister what she should wear? If he considers her his sister...she should have talked... Giving her the reasons.... I guess this isn't a problem that couldn't be sorted with love,care,patience and calmness.


And to add to this chaos....my mind faced the destruction of a storm... Actually i saw this episode of this serial-"gumrah"
Haven't seen this serial much....not more than 4 times... Il(including this episode)
It was so damn frustrating.... it left me teary eyed.
It was about an indian girl... Who came back to india with her family...after ten years of their stay in u.k..independence was allover her...as it should be... In her manners...hobbies...talks...
She knew nothing about india....or indians... Cutting the crap.... Just because of her friendly nature 4 guys living in the same colony as hers... Thought she is a loose character,..or easy to get...or whatever,
And the day...they couls lay hands on her..., they gang raped her... (yes i said this, here the crimes against we girls are increasing at an alarming rate and still when we talk about these...people raise their eyebrows...)
Oh yes! We indian girls must be shy... Overdressed... Calm...polite and composite..as if we are submissives in this hyprocrytic country...
And if we don't...









Well i don't mind taking a duppatta ...or even a ghoonghat... If this really is the way to support and respect  our elders...(if anyone can explain me how) but this doesn't mean that wearing shorts i am any different...
If you wear shorts...the scene starts from home... And ends up...with you getting hurt...physically or emotionally.


Have read somewhere "beauty lies in the eyes of viewer"
Same goes with it... If you saw a girl wearing shorts...and you think its distracting or whatever you may call...

Then its not her fault...its yours.

Its a modern world...where we work...we play...we laugh.... We dream...
how could someone just crush me under his feet because he didn't like the way i laugh...

We girls are not objects...you can play with...
We are not your assets...you can buy or sell...
We are humans....and NOT ON ANYONE'S MERCY...


love, jagriti

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And the hero asks heroine- what do you want me to do?

Her reply- "i don't know".


And i wasn't able to stop myself.... I was laughing out aloud....
Truely said-how could a guy understand what his girl wants..when she herself has got no idea....
Funny but true..
Well if some guy writes this on his facebook wall...i will be so-so angry... I may even shout....what the hell these guys think...

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But i know its true...i mean...we girls always know what the other person expects... What we should do...

But we are seldomly sure about what we want...
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Love,jags

just a thought...

I guess the best thing i learned till today...is that - if you feel bad...you have a war going on inside your head, you are not sure about the next step you will take...or where your life is going...where you will be , the very next day...or a week later or what you will do...So what if sometimes you feel that things are wrong...nothing is working out the way you suggested... still you will be fine...You will live by all this... many-many similar days are waiting for you...Big dreams and even bigger problems are being positioned by the almighty , just to add a little adventure...But you will live ...It will all be fine in the end...
Just be yourself...and see how beautiful a person you are... Just smile...may be just to practice it...
Because even if...today your smile is a little tired and sad...tomorrow it will be happy...real and satisfying... Life is not about a moment...or a day...or a week...not even a year... Its about the whole...its about you... :)