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How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

Sometimes i really wonder, as to how a woman can be expected to stay happy if she doesn't get somebody having the basics in first place, how can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being...

No matter, whatever a girl does, what ever she wears, with whomsover she is , she would always want to be treated like a princess, she would always expect her to be treated like somebody special, that being special is never something tangible to see about, but in fact something that she would like to feel about, something she  would always want to be proud about...


Be it any relationship, or any role, the girl or women fits into, if she is in real or true love with someone, she would never think of the visible boundaries, she will do anything practically possible for her to do, even if she has the whole world standing against her..No matter whatever the circumstances are, a women can handle anything , if her closed one banks on her, she just simply relies on the trust, she does almost everythng without limitations.


To the world outside,She doesn't want to be perfect, she doesn't want to be ready, she doesn't want to appear different, all she wants is that set of two eyes who sees her with affection....just one person...who could take care of her....to whom she can shower her love...her care...her affection....whom she could rely on....No matter, how big the issue is ,even if her companion lies, she'll cry, he may apologies, even if he doesn't change. She wud always stay


Its been proven since ages, it holds true for most of the world, for all the ethnic groups, across all the life, it is the girl who takes care of the world, from bringing a boy from a birth to a complete self caring boy, from being a daughter to a proud father, from being a loving wife to a husband, from being an affectionate sister to a brother and may be to any role she is made part of.. She is the one taking her interest next to someone she is fond of... and it goes on... may be till the death...


i do see a sea change in the opinion of the people, both towards the women and towards her role, i come across people who say that ironically, the girls or women have changed, they do not fall into the category their predecessors have set...  i have a different opinion to it, i agree that the world has changed, and may be the girls have fit into the gap created by the change this world created for them...Just that the world , the people around have always tried to explain us to as why do a girl needs to change, why do she always need to keep her interests over the special ones, as to why it is important to fight and may be what it takes to survive the ever changing world



Even the ugliest world  beautiful if you make it see through the special heart and eyes... that is what it takes for them to be PRINCESS


An insightful thought


Love-Jags( a princess to many)



and some contribution from ankitgupta


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I guess the best thing i learned till today...is that - if you feel bad...you have a war going on inside your head, you are not sure about the next step you will take...or where your life is going...where you will be , the very next day...or a week later or what you will do...So what if sometimes you feel that things are wrong...nothing is working out the way you suggested... still you will be fine...You will live by all this... many-many similar days are waiting for you...Big dreams and even bigger problems are being positioned by the almighty , just to add a little adventure...But you will live ...It will all be fine in the end...
Just be yourself...and see how beautiful a person you are... Just smile...may be just to practice it...
Because even if...today your smile is a little tired and sad...tomorrow it will be happy...real and satisfying... Life is not about a moment...or a day...or a week...not even a year... Its about the whole...its about you... :)