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Friendship, it is ... (Part 1)

First year in college....with all the new people...that too as if all the selfish people of this world were around me....unknowingly i had promised myself...m not going to talk to anyone...being friends was no way possible...

But being a part of a social word...i started talking to people near me... Living in my own world i was okay....wanted that time to be over soon... But then one day...i met someone... A guy...
Don't know what i liked about him...but when the very first time i talked to him... I was sure he is going to be someone special for me... That was the time when i realized...Someone special doesn't always mean...boyfriend/girlfriend...

We talked....talked again....and again... Sometimes for hours....or just for a second...

He was so good to me...and i just reciprocated his feelings... We care for each other...we like each other...Taking care of each other....in illness...being with each other when you know the person needed you... Actually he never told me anything at the time of it occurence.... He will tell me about his fears when he had overcome that...

He told me about his pain when he is sure he can handle that... But in my case...if i hid something....i am wrong... He told me everything but wgen done with it. That is funny but that's how it was...We both had someone in our respective lives... And then  no of our meeting reduced...but our friendship still managed to grow...Three years passed...with dozens of heartaches...stupid fights...teary patch ups...


One day....i realized an year has passed... We are staying at our respwctive places.... With hundreds of kms between us.... We talk less...act almost never.... No of messages has reduced to 1 per month...that too may vary negatively...

I couldn't figure out what's wrong... I know we are busy in our lives...but does that meant forgetting our friends....
I was angry with him....
How could he do this...
I have decided that i will never talk to him again...




But then...i messaged him-"hey...how r u?? Missing u buddy... take care"




i guess that's friendship


There is another part to this experience

at-http://jagritigulati.blogspot.in/2012/07/friendship-it-is-part-2.html

jags




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Truely said-how could a guy understand what his girl wants..when she herself has got no idea....
Funny but true..
Well if some guy writes this on his facebook wall...i will be so-so angry... I may even shout....what the hell these guys think...

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Love,jags

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I guess the best thing i learned till today...is that - if you feel bad...you have a war going on inside your head, you are not sure about the next step you will take...or where your life is going...where you will be , the very next day...or a week later or what you will do...So what if sometimes you feel that things are wrong...nothing is working out the way you suggested... still you will be fine...You will live by all this... many-many similar days are waiting for you...Big dreams and even bigger problems are being positioned by the almighty , just to add a little adventure...But you will live ...It will all be fine in the end...
Just be yourself...and see how beautiful a person you are... Just smile...may be just to practice it...
Because even if...today your smile is a little tired and sad...tomorrow it will be happy...real and satisfying... Life is not about a moment...or a day...or a week...not even a year... Its about the whole...its about you... :)