Thursday, 5 July 2012

Friendship, it is ... (Part 1)

First year in college....with all the new people...that too as if all the selfish people of this world were around me....unknowingly i had promised myself...m not going to talk to anyone...being friends was no way possible...

But being a part of a social word...i started talking to people near me... Living in my own world i was okay....wanted that time to be over soon... But then one day...i met someone... A guy...
Don't know what i liked about him...but when the very first time i talked to him... I was sure he is going to be someone special for me... That was the time when i realized...Someone special doesn't always mean...boyfriend/girlfriend...

We talked....talked again....and again... Sometimes for hours....or just for a second...

He was so good to me...and i just reciprocated his feelings... We care for each other...we like each other...Taking care of each other....in illness...being with each other when you know the person needed you... Actually he never told me anything at the time of it occurence.... He will tell me about his fears when he had overcome that...

He told me about his pain when he is sure he can handle that... But in my case...if i hid something....i am wrong... He told me everything but wgen done with it. That is funny but that's how it was...We both had someone in our respective lives... And then  no of our meeting reduced...but our friendship still managed to grow...Three years passed...with dozens of heartaches...stupid fights...teary patch ups...


One day....i realized an year has passed... We are staying at our respwctive places.... With hundreds of kms between us.... We talk less...act almost never.... No of messages has reduced to 1 per month...that too may vary negatively...

I couldn't figure out what's wrong... I know we are busy in our lives...but does that meant forgetting our friends....
I was angry with him....
How could he do this...
I have decided that i will never talk to him again...




But then...i messaged him-"hey...how r u?? Missing u buddy... take care"




i guess that's friendship


There is another part to this experience

at-http://jagritigulati.blogspot.in/2012/07/friendship-it-is-part-2.html

jags




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