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Today and trust, anything in common?

In the online society world of today, where friends ,family  or even the closest siblings speak through the word of internet, facebook takes its own special space...

talking about the today's scenario....
you login to your facebook account...you have a number of requests awaiting your response....
some of them were your schoolmates....whom you haven't talked since ages...some are the people who were in college with youvand we haven't even talked to them ever..
and there is a category of people...who don't know you...still send you request.... aand when you ask the reason...they say-'oh...i wanna be your friend...please accept my friend request...'

well there was a guy...i saw his request...and on looking at his profile...i came to know that we have a common friend....
so i thought may be i know him too...
i asked him. he sais yes.... i asked how?? he reverted 'i am sorry i don't remeber...
he tried to talk'...ignoring this -"do i know you thing"

i …

We are humans... I am scared about this change

            Oh god!!!
I can’t believe it...what the hell is happening… I know the world talks about the change, but can a change be so disastrous, I could never imagine.
Well truly speaking i hate newspapers...i mean the part except filmy gossips...jokes and stories...But yesterday...having a coffee i thought...lets see what is going on...And as always...ignoring the front page...i started readin the last page... There was a news...i read it...and i was in shock...my eyes...open wide...and i said-"what the hell???" Well it was about a girl...living in pakistan....she was shot dead by her brother...because he wore jeans and her brother has warned her not to. I don't know that's real reason or not...because frankly....i can't trust that...someone killing you just because...you are wearing jeans?? Even if its not the true reason...how could a newspaper editor...let this news publish??


What the hell is wrong with us??? Is it seriously about clothes or the fact that...we can…

Something new....

Aaah.... Guess what today i thought about several things that i want to share with you people... But i realized this needs a break...

There must be something worth writing... ;p

Was reading a novel-
In between some arguement
And the hero asks heroine- what do you want me to do?

Her reply- "i don't know".


And i wasn't able to stop myself.... I was laughing out aloud....
Truely said-how could a guy understand what his girl wants..when she herself has got no idea....
Funny but true..
Well if some guy writes this on his facebook wall...i will be so-so angry... I may even shout....what the hell these guys think...

Hehe
But i know its true...i mean...we girls always know what the other person expects... What we should do...

But we are seldomly sure about what we want...
;) may be because...since early days of our lives....we keep everyone else before us....so have lost contact with ourselves...
;)

Love,jags

A TIME THAT WILL NEVER COME BACK

Staying in a hostel, spending time with different brains, moods, people, ideologies, is never an easy thing to do...
And whenever i have a new problem i tel myself - 
"you have lived in a hostel for four years.....you can manage anything"

Believe me living in a hostel is really a task.... You have to live almost 24*7 with a person...about whom you don't know anything......
the first few days....you just observe people...as if evaluating the hard limits....
after all you both have equally paid for the room and the stuff.... hehe :-)


the first few days could really crash a person...

aah i love ragging days....
u are sitting in your room reading the subject of your toughest teacher......and there is a knock on the door..

"COME TO ROOM NO.203" 

"NOW"

you feel as if your lower jaw has dropped on the floor...butterflies in your stomach....
"what will happen?"
"how will they talk?"
"what will they ask"
aah the list is long

you gather people....…

just once...think about it...

“Relationships are mysterious. We doubt the positive qualities in others, seldom the negative. You will say to your partner: do you really love me? Are you sure you love me? You will ask this a dozen times and drive the person nuts. But you never ask: are you really mad at me? Are you sure you’re angry? When someone is angry, you don’t doubt it for a moment. Yet the reverse should be true. We should doubt the negative in life, and have faith in the positive.”

An important conversation with yourself

There must have been some days in your lives when you really feel that you need to talk to someone, may be you keep gazing at the phone and realize that noone has called, messaged or may tried to contact you... You feel depressed?

On the other note, there also happens to be the days, when you are so busy, with the family,the friends, or the closest links, during the time, you don't want to be disturbed, even though you find that the phone is continuously ringing.. You feel as in?

Well, if I were to ask a question, what do you really feel in both the conditions?  Why would you always act the way you are supposed to be? May be the way the people want you to be, at that point of time.

But......

Have you ever thought about taking a day off from your social life??

Have you ever thought about ignoring a call when your phone rings???

Have you ever thought about spending a day alone...just by yourself... Thinking about yourself...your life.... Or doing stuff you always felt like doing???

If not.…

Its my life

today....while checking my facebook account...a very wierd thought came to my mind............ why am i doing this,....? why am i using this site...? am i addicted to it??? or am i just trying to make friends?? or may be its just a try to be a lil social,,,,,,,,
well i have no idea..... people tell us...aah...facebook is an addiction....checkin what other people feel....what they like...as if that is going to change anything at ol...uploading new pics....just to tell..... Hey.... "see i have done this"..... "m more adventurous....."or even "see i am  more beautifiul...."
so what?
i possess around 60 novels.... people say-why you buy them?? are you goingto read them again??? or even-"You have read them all???"
so what?
i like staying at home watching movies...
people say- 
oh come on yaar-"be social"
go to partys...enjoy....

so what?
i drive fast.... people say-"whats the hurry?"
so what?
so what if i am not what people want me to be?




what if i fai…

be happy for yourself............

“Laugh, even when you feel too sick or too worn out or tired. 
Smile, even when you're trying not to cry and the tears are blurring your vision. 
Sing, even when people stare at you and tell you your voice is crappy. 
Trust, even when your heart begs you not to. 
Twirl, even when your mind makes no sense of what you see. 
Frolick, even when you are made fun of. Kiss, even when others are watching. Sleep, even when you're afraid of what the dreams might bring. 
Run, even when it feels like you can't run any more.
And, always, remember, even when the memories pinch your heart. Because the pain of all your experience is what makes you the person you are now. And without your experience---you are an empty page, a blank notebook, a missing lyric. What makes you brave is your willingness to live through your terrible life and hold your head up high the next day. So don't live life in fear. Because you are stronger now, after all the crap has happened, than you ever were back before…

Kal kisne dekha hai ??

I can never forget that day…. Three girls in a hostel room  at 5:30 in the morning…..watching a movie…. Crying and crying… Saying….oh..i wish I could get someone like him(in the latter half of movie) I wish I could be that much in love with someone…….


But we didn’t realize one thing- “IF ONLY”
it’s a story….about a couple…madly in love…living in together…
n the guy….talking  his girlfriend…..for granted…. Well not exactly for granted….just  not trying to understand her feelings….her dreams….desires…. then one day…they had this fight in a restaurent… and she left…
while taking the cab- she dnt close the door…. The cab driver asked the boyfriend….”are you coming sir” the guy didn’t reply…. She shuts the door….and just at the next crossing…she met with an accident,….she dies.
Very next morning….he woke up….and find her alive…. He got shocked….but releved…that it was just a dream…. But very soon he realizes…the dream is going to be the reality…everything was happeneing to him….in exactly the same wa…

Friendship, it is ... (Part 1)

First year in college....with all the new people...that too as if all the selfish people of this world were around me....unknowingly i had promised myself...m not going to talk to anyone...being friends was no way possible...

But being a part of a social word...i started talking to people near me... Living in my own world i was okay....wanted that time to be over soon... But then one day...i met someone... A guy...
Don't know what i liked about him...but when the very first time i talked to him... I was sure he is going to be someone special for me... That was the time when i realized...Someone special doesn't always mean...boyfriend/girlfriend...

We talked....talked again....and again... Sometimes for hours....or just for a second...

He was so good to me...and i just reciprocated his feelings... We care for each other...we like each other...Taking care of each other....in illness...being with each other when you know the person needed you... Actually he never told me anythin…

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

Sometimes i really wonder, as to how a woman can be expected to stay happy if she doesn't get somebody having the basics in first place, how can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being...

No matter, whatever a girl does, what ever she wears, with whomsover she is , she would always want to be treated like a princess, she would always expect her to be treated like somebody special, that being special is never something tangible to see about, but in fact something that she would like to feel about, something she  would always want to be proud about...

Be it any relationship, or any role, the girl or women fits into, if she is in real or true love with someone, she would never think of the visible boundaries, she will do anything practically possible for her to do, even if she has the whole world standing against her..No matter whatever the circumstances are, a women can handle anything , if her closed one ban…