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To exist is to change, to change is to mature, to mature is to go on creating oneself endlessly


To exist is to change, to change is to mature, to mature is to go on creating oneself endlessly 

What if one day when you wake up...and you realize that...everything has changed...in just a few hours you have like grown up....u kind of get responsible, may be thoughtful....impartial....mature...and much more...

Well, getting the first job and going for it has a similar kind of feel, being into job , to the least,gives you the feeling of being more responsible. 
Thats how i felt when i got ma job.....A lecturer to students. it was a bizzare, i mean how can somebody associated with the maximum number of class bunks, funky lifestyle can be into such a serious work role. In the first place, it felt funny, the imagination of teaching, guiding , mentoring the people of your generation, may be some years younger to you felt like a tinkle to my mind... 

no wonder, the engineering and professional students are the best teachers to each other during the exams, no wonder we are the best examples of being the team during preparation and execution of answer sheets, still it seems to be a new life... from just being a noisy mischievous student to see the same from the other side... 
With people looking at you with hope...trust....respect...
may be somebody who would be making efforts to brush their future, nurture their dreams, you kind of feel responsible....for the people...who were once unknown to you...not because you are getting paid for this, but your heart actually sees a sense of responsibility within...


u have to watch all your actions... because you know one thing well....they are many out  there who will learn from every act of urs.
best explanation of dis could be-"You must be the change you wish to see in the world."

With the college 'kids' around (May be of ur age or elders sometimes :-P ) You would always want to be Mr. or Miss Perfect, to be at your all time best 

No wonder, how do they perform, what bracket they come from, what category of age they fall into, you would always want them to rise, from one level to other, in so many different ways..

The relationship gets so funnier and comical that at one point of time, they appear to be your friend, may be a protege, but on the other side, to your surprise, you hear them taking  the most stupid names for you, just because you have given them a dose of assignments, five point something grade in the sessionals and may be a hardcore elimination in the viva session. LOLzzzz

No wonder, you may have never seen books so deep during your education,but for them you will study each and every part of the study material that the library can offer you...because for you theres nothing important than their future....it feels amazing that you are responsible for someone else's future...

I have a strong memory to being a mentor to some of the future wiz'kids', I remember that day when i asked my students to write about "what you like about each other"
i told them to keep that piece of paper in safe... because i know it very well....the security they will feel when after years they will find this paper somewhere...when they will be in the most difficuilt times of their lives......losing their own trust ( i wish that never happens)

this piece of paper will give them hope....:)

Despite the peculiarity of this setup, to be somebody's mentor is the best thing you may ever come across in your journey...you want them to be the best in their studies...but you dn want them to just spend their life...... you want them to enjoy their lives...to have fun...to make friends.....you want to guide them....but want them to achieve everything they desire......


Here's something i have in my mind for my students, 

no matter what happens.......no matter where you are... or what life has blessed you with.... 
be happy..
play it cool.....
do whatever you want....
achieve all your aims.....
dream and dream more......and then work to make that dreams come true.....
because...in life theirs no place for regrets.......

remember...in the end you are the only one responsible for yourself.....

may you all get success ......
god bless you all

love,Jagriti

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  1. Good good...keep it up... ur thoughts are worth a read...

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  2. Tell me, how does a teacher react? when students behave exactly the same way as you did when you were a student?

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  3. well... That depends on...who the teacher is...some wil be angry...some will give lectures....some will complaint, but if i am the teacher... And i know watever they are doing is just for fun...and no harm to their future or anyone else.... I will say...keep it up... Enjoy your college life

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