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Dont be upset on the wrong choices of life...


"Do not be upset if you have made a wrong choice..
Because without choosing them you will never know the true value of the right ones."
Reading this quote and wondering about the first thought in our minds- 
We need to see and understand the looks and taste of a rotten apple just before relishing the taste of a fresh one.......but can we assume that decisions in life are as simple as selecting an apple is...  I am afraid... I wonder no...
In the world around,in the world of 21st century, no matter what the age is...almost evryone has got his/her someone special in their lives....that someone special is their heart...soul and may be above the life..
From getting up in the morning...till sleeping at night(may be later?)....staying with someone virtually ....staying in contact almost 24*7 to know each other's life in detail is what Relationship is....What we call the RELATIONSHIP OF SMS GENERATION
As they say, being in a relationship is like getting your own time table filled by someone else....
To many in so called good relationships, the world looks beautiful and beyond... the ones not in the relationship see the ones into it with envy thinking that they are the unlucky ones... The world really looks beautiful when you are not the part of it...
Agreed that there was a time when love affairs were rare....love marriages were the rarest... but the marriage really meant a marriage...a bond for the life time, no matter it is love or arranged....but the courtesy , the seven vows and promises meant for the life... not just for the one, but for all the seven lives, may be the 7 Janams....
But our today ?? In a discussion of minutes, it is 
- from-"u r my life" to "its my life"
-from "i can die 4 u" to "its not working"...
The only similarity between the relations of yesterday and today is -- The relationships bank on the word TRUST. '
But this trust has its own conditions in the world called TODAY.Can u trust d person.....forever?? 
u meet a person.....u start likin him/her.....things are wonderful ....But when u get to know the real person...that is the real starting of the relationship......Your feelings change....things get added in ur dislike list...and still....if u can stay with that person.....not jst stay....u can b with dat person...love him/her...care for him/her......That's wat we must call relationship......
To many in today's life...choosing a life partner is just like buying a new car.... There's always someone better out there..... baat bhi sahi h.... we hav read in school too-"no one is perfect"...
but perfection is not just desired by the life partner, do you really see if you are perfect yourself? What if your partner is not perfect? 
People today are in a relationship...coz dey think dey have to b... some for d reputation....some for security.... n some???  - no comments:)
Have read somewhere-"love means....enjoying the similarities and respecting d differences..." 
a person was shattered....coz...his relationship was going through its worst phase.... he said he dn want to b with d gal...she z doin dis...n dat....so i sd-wats d use of bearing this burden.....if u ppl cant evn understand each other.... ur love is lost somewhere...or was it or wasnt ever there... d person replied- i cant live without her.
well.....relationship is just like a drug.. :)u get addicted to hav someone with u ol d time.....n just the thought dat u lost dat sm1...z horrible
so isnt it d best  option dat even if u r getting into a relationship....u both hav ur own words.... n a combo for both...giv each other space...n respect each other's wishes.....
You got to be in the beautiful relationship, the beauty of life, you got to share, you got to believe, you got to trust, and beyond... Life is always about living it not just the curse...
Relationships are just not about the timepass, it is about the feelings, worth the time spent... Being into it is SPECIAL and 'let it stay special...
Live a relationship that says - " When you are in a relationship and its GOOD, even if nothing else in your life is right, your world seems to be complete"

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