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Count your blessings

"If material things are what you are talking about when you say i am blessed, You have no idea what a blessing is. "
Yes, its weird coming from a shopaholic like me :) but isn't it correct. We all or I must say- most of us have what we need to live our lives. Its just that we want more, something more and that list never ends.
We get something we wanted , and we develop a liking for something else. Its good to have your thoughts in sync, to move ahead, to wish and make your own wishes come true. But there is no way, those wishes can define your happiness.

One thing I learned from observing people is that we wish for these material things and act crazy for them when we believe there is something missing in the life. Something more meaningful, something you believe you should have got as a right or something you really deserve. It could be being alone, losing someone, not having that dream job, just anything.  And we use these material things to just fill in those gaps. To…
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And i am blabbering again :)

Looking at yourself, have you ever felt like, this is not what you wanted to be. Like ever. And here you are standing in front of the mirror, looking at your face, thinking - is this really me now? Do i have to cope with this person like forever?
Can I like exchange somewhere?

Looking at the kids around, they have so much on their mind, they have hopes, dreams. They also look at the movie stars/celebrities and hope that they would live lives like them. Their on screen characters leave a mark on our just-blossomed hearts and minds.
What we do not know till then is  that the biggest fight, disappointment, inspiration they will get from themselves.

I have always wanted to be the free spirit person, living my life on my terms, not caring about anyone around, their opinions. I thought i would draft a new bucket list every year and complete it all up by November, so that i can think about more and more. And get over with all the crazy, stupid stuff by the End of this life. And what am i doing?…

Life it is!

So many times- in our lives it happens that we feel like we have to let go of what we have in order to get something better and at other times we just have to, no return promised. At such points in life  we realize it is all about letting go… No matter how much you want things to stay the way they are, you tag along people with you, the ones you don’t want to lose, at any cost… but you later on realize, it’s the way it is. Sometimes I wish my life to be like a video game, with the controls in my hand…I could alter the things my way, could start over when I felt like, no pains would have entered my way and the happiness would have continued forever… and then a peaceful exit. But then I ask myself, would that be even a little bit exciting? Nah The evolution of a person from the way he/she was to the way they are a few years down the line, it depends on the path one took, the people we met, the obstacles we passed…   What if I was too scared of this particular way, well it wasn’t easy…I wou…

Love has its ways...Marriage is one of them :p

Love isn't something you find. Love is something that finds you... True. 

No matter how long you search for that click, your someone special, it will happen when it is bound to happen. And there is someone for everyone-people say that. So just chill, go ahead, enjoy the days, weeks, months and years until you feel that click, and babes its gonna change after that.

Just like every other thing in this world, love and marriage have their own two sides :O you are going to break that heart of yours, before you actually have someone worth sharing it with.
People say you give your heart to someone, well that is  not just true. You will realize when you both will be learning together about your lives building into one- there is still some hurt every now and then you feel in your chest. :)
Its not giving your heart to someone, its like sharing a part of yours. 
i guess, It should be a truly wonderful feeling, having someone in your life, by your side. No matter what happens always ready to step…


People say something happens when it is time for it to happen, we meet people whom we are supposed to meet, we are where we are needed to be.
There are times when we want certain things in life... things that we believe we cannot live without. We ask for them again and again...but in vain, at least that is what we think. Even the strongest of us have those weak moments when the burdens of life seems too big to handle, actually it has nothing to do with strength and weakness, its just about faith and knowing that you will be okay, you can handle all the odds- else you wouldn't have been in that very spot.

Sometimes the best thing you can do is-  not think, not wonder,not imagine,not obsess...just breathe and have faith that everything will work out for the best. Listen to the faintest whisper of "Maybe" even if all the signs pointing towards a "No", Remember, a small leap of faith can do wonders :)

Well something that i have learned from life... as of now :) - …

Its a loss :(

The news is all over the social media, one more celebrity suicide... Or was it a murder Its sad, to see one more soul lost in vain.  Death of an individual is never just about that person, its about all the people surrounding, families, friends, Aquitaines, and even the hello-hi buddies. The person has died, but the others-they have to live with the truth that the person is no longer with them.
They need to know the truth, and yes they deserve to but why cant we leave them alone,,, its like everyone has a view that they are sharing on the social media- People are taking all kind of benefits they could ever take, and even at her deathbed, their game is not over. 
Its really sad looking at how we all have turned out- the attention seekers. we cant even let the family of deceased mourn in peace.  And for suicides, the number is rising...for us the common people as well... but why??? how come we as a society are  so weak that we cannot help our people getting over their tough times? How …

Women's day it is !

First of all a Happy- belated -Women Day to all the beautiful, intelligent,crazy,charming,bitchy women out there :), and the people who are there for them getting on their nerves, and handling their tantrums when they need you to.

On this day, everyone was like-why? why there is a day for females :O and why not for males? don't we deserve a day of our own :O  Well guys, you gotta earn it :P

Frankly speaking i do not believe in the celebration of this one day, its just like the way our society already  is- showering them with love and prayers on one day, and barring them from all the basic necessary rights on other.
There was a time when we read stories about these weird customs, from around the world and we were could they??? and these days its so normal, like that day i read about this old Indian tradition (still being followed), where the elder ladies of the house burn the breasts of the young girls, more like hitting them in the chest with a hot -super hot wooden som…